7 Signals of Marriage Infidelity in Men

What are the reasons for marriage infidelity in men? Why would your man cheat on you?

After all, he swore an oath of faithfulness to you on your wedding day… and in front of many witnesses!

Whether the reasons are justified or not… is not important. What’s really important here is the knowledge of those reasons and stopping them.

Man’s desire for love and sex is so strong that if he doesn’t have strong moral principles… he will do just anything to satisfy his sexual urge.

Do not take this for granted because even when he may be wrong… it is you whose heart could be broken.

When you have a good understanding of these reasons you’ll be able to prevent infidelity problems and keep untold pains away.

Now let’s start with the first:

1. Beware of marriage infidelity if he doesn’t feel intimacy at home anymore.
When a man feels he can’t get close enough to his wife at home… this may be a big sign of danger.

For instance… if you begin to pull away to sleep in a separate bedroom from your husband even if you live in a 50-room mansion, you may just be calling for an extramarital affair.

If you have to isolate yourself for reasons such as personal, career or spiritual development… make sure you discuss it with him and let him see reasons with you and consent to it. Men want to maintain an unbroken intimacy with their wives.

2. Beware of marriage infidelity if he feels you are cheating on him.

Anything that makes your man believe you are cheating on him may lead him to nurture revenge.

Like a strange man dropping you from work… or a call you receive from a stranger that you can’t clearly explain.

The bottom line here is being open… and don’t take anything for granted. A male colleague comes visiting for the first time and you stay hours giggling aloud at each other when you haven’t introduced him to your husband is way too risky.

Your husband may have been quiet about it but may be seriously offended. It’s your duty to walk up to him and make him understand the truth.


3. Beware of marriage infidelity if he wants to enjoy the excitement of having another affair.

Most men without very strong values look for sexual excitement after a few months or years of marriage.

But you can reduce the risk of infidelity in your relationship by being creative. First, don’t allow yourself to be boring in bed. You may not need much of sex but I bet your husband does.

Second, educate yourself. Michael Webb is an authority in this area. His book, 500 lovemaking tips and secrets has been generating amazing testimonies worldwide. I am sure it will keep your man glued to you like a spell even when you are in your 50’s.

4. Beware of marriage infidelity if he wants to boost an Ego that is hurt.

Never ever accuse your husband of not being good enough in bed. Don’t even create any impression close to it.

If you feel you desire much more sexual satisfaction than you are getting right now, I‘ll tell you what to do. Practice the insights you’ve learnt from Michael Webb’s 500 lovemaking tips and secrets with him.

Then encourage him to improve. But be careful to do it diplomatically. Allow him to improve at his own space. You are in it for a lifetime and a few months you wait to let him understand your sexual needs enough to meet them can be greatly rewarding.


5. Beware of marriage infidelity if he feels he doesn’t love you anymore.

Beware when it seems like your husband doesn’t love you anymore. The best way to solve this problem is to find ways to rekindle love in your marriage.

If you haven’t read my post on rekindling love in marriage please do. It’s not just about reading it. It’s about practicing.

You will need to lay aside any form of pride or ego to get maximum results. Every fading love can be rekindled. It all depends on the partners involved.

6. Beware of marriage infidelity if he feels you are looking old and unattractive.

I would suggest that you watch the dresses you wear. They may make you look older than you really are. Whether you are going on an outing or just chilling out with him in the orchard… always appear sexy and smart.

If you are above 45 you can still be attractive. There are anti-aging exercises you can consider. The bottom line is taking good care of yourself and you’ll keep looking great… no matter how old you are.

7. Beware of marriage infidelity if he begins to enjoy his favorite activities with someone else.

Like I said earlier, there’s some work involved if you really want to keep your man. You’ve got to find a way to make him spend more time with you.

Most men who cheat have very pretty wives at home. Yet they end up in the arms of less attractive women who are willing to share their passion.

For instance, you keep refusing to accompany him for his weekend golf games. You don’t even join him on Friday night to watch his favorite TV game show. Little things like this can keep his focus on you while he’s still enjoying his passion!


Marriage infidelity can be prevented. Don’t wait for the pains of unfaithfulness and extramarital affairs to lead your marriage in the direction of divorce or loneliness.

Always remember you can stop marriage infidelity if you monitor every stage of your husband’s feelings.